People all around the world are more practical-minded than moral authorities want to accept, and this specifically includes young women. They do not need a science of sexual economics to understand sexual economics.
Often, young women comply with stringent social standards not so much because they believe them to be appropriate, but rather because there is no practical way to circumvent them.
Living out their sexuality is a dangerous undertaking for young women in many countries of the world. They could face severe corporal punishment in strict religious societies, be murdered by relatives in certain traditional communities, or be expelled from their homes and families even in more liberal societies like Italy and Brazil.
Open sexual conduct by their daughters can bring shame to loved ones and cause a girl’s mother severe emotional distress.
All of these are circumstances that are hardly conducive to uninhibited sexual adventuring. Therefore, women conform to society’s rules.
However, if the right infrastructure is provided to circumvent society’s rules, young women will be much more inclined to pursue sexual relationships.
The right infrastructure primarily means a sufficient degree of secrecy. This requires a discreet mode of transport, such as a private vehicle, and a secluded venue, such as a house that can be entered without any neighbor being able to spot who is going in and out. It also requires discreet means of communication.
It also helps to have a track record of being trustworthy. In rather repressive countries, it is of great advantage not to be a local. Practical-minded local women in such countries are wary of local men, as they may be religious extremists.
Most people would be surprised to learn to what extent young women are willing to engage in sexual relationships for fun if no negative consequences are to be feared.
The above favorable conditions could be defined as the right sexual infrastructure. While factors such as good looks, charm, intelligence, and education are all important, it is also true that all of these will get a man nowhere if he cannot put a favorable infrastructure into place.
